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Nguyên văn bởi T_n_C
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First of all, phải xem là bị quấy rầy về mặt nào đả VMT.:dzui2: nếu về mặt tình cảm thì phải coi họ biểu hiện như thế nào?:Flirty: tá động mạnh quá thi đêm lên HR cho họ xử lí. Nếu nhẹ như tnc thì run away to other shift.:teu: racist cũng có nhiều loại mà, đâu phải mình không nói chuyện, hay chào hỏi la racist đâu. chẳng qua mình ít nói ma thôi:dzui10: nếu bị write report là Racist va Unprofesional thì người write củng phải có enought evident cho what you did to them.:khuckhich: Tha's all my experience at my work place. :khoccuoi1:
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Ngại phải trình lên HR lắm TnC. Chẳng lẽ a man lại đi file sexual harrasment? lol.
But honestly, I feel like they are attacking me, coming after me like I'm a bet or something, just to see if they can, I don't know if this is the right word to use in this situation, what's the word I'm searching for, "chế phục"? Or "own" me?
Since there was this one time, I accenditally said, joking of course, "I'm only interested in Asian women". But now thinking about that comment, I was serious, I'm only interested in Asian women. Is that wrong?
I know I should not have said it in public. So that's was my mistake. Now they spread rumors about me being racist and all. What's more, they chasing me just to show that they can "change" my feelings towards American woman??? That's the situation at work. I'm like an object for them to win smh. That really lowers my self esteem, I'm a person, not a thing, sigh
And how am I being written up as unprofessional for ignoring someone who was sitting
on top of my desk trying to ask me out? And texting me nonstop! Leo lên bàn của mình ngồi lì trên đó không chịu xuống, legs crossed, flirting/seducing left and right, nói chuyện gì đâu đâu chẳng chút liên quan đến công việc. thank god my door to my office was wide open, nếu không thì... words and more words to come, rumors after rumors, I don't even want to think about it. smh
Chưa có bị report là racist, chỉ mới bị đồn thôi, nhưng đã bị file report là unproffesional for ignoring a co worker's conversation, wtf, rồi bị label là mis conduct (according to the code of conduct). smh
rất muốn chuyển qua 2nd shift, ngặt nỗi không có ai chăm sóc Anna at night. sigh
I don't get it! Why me? out of all the men at work, why come after me? A man with a kid, I thought I would be off the market for having a kid. Don't women used to stay away from married men with children? Can they see my ring I'm wearing for goodness sake?
thanks TnC bro for your advices. You are right bro, I just have to watch myself, đừng để người ta collect enough evident để trình lên HR.
sigh, back to work.